He says, answer these questions to know if you are p*ssy whipped:
1. Do you hold her afterwards?
2. Do you tell her to go home when its over?
3. When she talks, do you actually listen?
This is from the sitcom Martin, that now runs on BET on French TV (wrap your head around that one). I've always found this term kind of funny... and I always imagine it in the literal sense - that is, an actual va jay jay holding a leather whip to get men to do her bidding. Crack!
But what does it mean really? And more importantly why does it mean?
Can't men just be nice and sweet and madly in love without it having to be related to sex? And can men be p*ssy whipped when there is no sex involved? Or what if she's really sweet but the sex sucks?
Can he be frontal lobe whipped? Be crazy about her creative genius mind? She could be like Kelis revisité ....my cerebellum brings all the boys to the yard. And he's like it's better than yours. Damn right, it's better than yours. I can calculate for you, but I'd have to charge.
I don't know. But I think it's a strange term. Because at the end of the day, what it says is that a man has lost his "power" and goes along with what the woman asks him to do. And in general his friends use the term as a way to keep him in check...you made her priority over us, therefore, you're p*ssy whipped. (Fun fact - the term was first used in 1956 - not sure how they know this).
OK, I get it if the guy has fallen off the face of the earth and she is manipulative and uses sex to keep him on a leash of sorts...to control and isolate him. That's just wrong.
But isn't it funny that there is no term for a woman who is crazy about her guy and goes along with what he wants to do? Maybe it exists but I've never heard of anyone being penis whipped. Is it just expected that women will go along with men's requests and make them a priority in their lives?
Now, what if a guy decides to ignore his lady and just hangs out with his boys doing what they want? Is he then ba**s whipped?
Honest to goodness, I don't even want to imagine what that would look like.